My Hot Friend: A funny and heartfelt novel about friendship from the bestselling author

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My ex showed up at my apartment in tears, crying her eyes out about how her husband cheated on her. She wanted revenge. So she got it with me.” — Shane, 29 There are upsides and downsides to all of these strategies… so let’s take a closer look at them and see what is involved. Option 1: Cheat On Your Wife With Her Hot Friend match in a short period. Onenightfriend.com is your opportunity to meet exciting UK singles and enjoy the But the instinct is still there… and in an imaginary world where men were allowed to do whatever they wanted, many men would likely follow this instinct and pursue many more women than just the one they plan to settle down with. Act as if her friend is just a cool person you would be interested in… not someone you have a giant crush on.

So let’s get into the nitty-gritty of exactly what to do in this sort of a situation. The First Thing You Should Do With that being said, I AM going to talk a little bit about how you can bring this up to your wife with the greatest possibility of it turning into something good!If you can approach the situation with actual care for her feelings, it will go much better… and when you finally get around to opening up to her about her friend, your patience will likely pay off, as she will trust you a lot more because of all of the communicating you’ve done on the subject. Both of these options come with their own sets of upsides and downsides. And to be completely honest, the best course of action is probably going to depend heavily on the context of your relationship. Because an alpha male will always choose his authentic path… the path that will bring him the most fulfillment and happiness. The path that he believes in. That path that best allows him to live his most genuine and authentic life. I am attracted to my wife’s hot friend and would love to have sex with her. But obviously, that could put my marriage and my wife’s feelings in jeopardy… so I don’t know what to do.” The only real downside to this plan is that it could lead to you repressing your feelings… and over time, if your feelings are strong enough, they might come out as resentment toward your wife for what you perceive as her controlling your life.

This is called ‘social aggression’ and ‘reputation destruction,’ and women employ these techniques often in an attempt to morph their social position into one that feels safer and more secure. This is especially true if your wife tends to be understanding, and if the two of you have a reasonably healthy relationship and decent communication skills. Of course, there is always the possibility that you could open up to your wife about it, in the hopes that it could one-day turn into a threesome, a swinger situation, or an open-relationship-type scenario… but there is also a risk associated with this approach. This can be a sensitive thing for a conservative or shy woman to open up about. Our culture sometimes shames women for wanting to be sexual… so try to understand that and provide a safe-place for her to open up in. Therapist MiriamKirmayer suggests paying attention to the ‘shoulds’ you hold around friendship: ‘That you should have a bestie; you should drop a bad friend; that a friendship should be perfect to satisfy you. Question your friendship rules and where they come from,’ she advises. As I consider the questions, I realise that I apply a cardboardcutout definition of a friend to my friendships. The ridiculousness of expecting one friend to satisfy many needs dawns on me. Think about the positive parts of your difficult friendIf you don’t want to be married anymore, then staying with your wife purely out of a sense of duty may actually not be the best course of action. An alpha male always does what he wants, and he always pursues what he wants. He doesn’t stay in a situation he doesn’t like. He is always striving to make his life better, to increase his wealth, and to develop his own happiness. If you are attracted to your wife’s hot friend, the first thing you should do is decide exactly what you want.

Marriage isn’t easy, even on the best of days. And when you throw something like this into the mix, it can be downright difficult! You are an alpha male who is in charge of your life… and if your wife is your first priority, you should be happy to honor her. We, however, rarely receive such kind of complaints due to the nature of the nation, since our British Plus, if you were to actually make a move and do the deed with your wife’s hot friend, you may instantly regret it and realize that it was just a mistake driven by a purely sexual impulse.If you can make this more about her and less about you, it will take the focus off of you and put her in the spotlight… which is very good for you!