101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do

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After watching some steamy scenes, try to recreate one. If you need some inspo, try some sex moves from Sex/Life or those steamy Bridgerton moments for some TV-worthy sexy times. 14. Incorporate food in the bedroom. A foot fetish involves a desire to worship feet through acts such as massage, kissing, and smelling. As professional dominatrix Goddess Aviva previously told Allure, it's an extremely common fetish. If your partner shares that they have a foot fetish, it may be initially jarring, but it's an opportunity for you to discuss a potentially exciting new part of your sex life together. (And, if you're into it, just think of all the foot massages headed your way!) 4. Anal Sex Vorarephilia is the infamous cannibal kink. It means getting turned on by fantasies of eating someone, and the subject has made headlines this year due to the sexual assault allegations against actor Armie Hammer. There are tons of sex challenges out there depending on what you're looking for. To get started, try having sex as many times as you can during the weekend or try a new position each day for a week. 110. Have your partner eat sushi off your naked body.Keen to give kink a try? The key to exploring your kinky side starts with open, honest communication and fun! So sit down and talk about what turns you on with your other half before you get started. Discussing your sexual desires with a trusted partner can also serve as foreplay and be seriously steamy. So talk about it, plan what you hope to explore together and enjoy the ride! As long as you're all consenting adults, anything goes and the world is your rubber lobster: 1. Sensory deprivation

Of course, literally killing and eating someone is wrong. However, kinks and fetishes are already stigmatized; we don't need to pathologize this one if someone is doing no harm. "It is usually metaphorically, or an embodied feeling, rather than a literal translation," Dr. Richmond says. "Partners will often say, 'I could just eat you alive I’m so turned on by you,' but that's driven by an urge to consume the energy of eroticism and arousal more than a real or uncontrollable desire to consume a part of the human body. Obviously, if it moves into a compulsion or biting in a way that is not consensual, this is dangerous, illegal, and certainly not sex-positive," she adds.Try to avoid uttering a noise from foreplay to finish. If you're having trouble, this is the perfect time to get a ball-gag involved (as long as everyone consents, ofc). Include a few silent sex toys to add another twist to the sexuation. 55. Have super loud, moan-heavy sex. Sex toys allow you and your partner (or partners) to bring an exciting sensation that might not be possible with tongues, fingers, and genitals alone,” Finn says, adding that you can think of them as the sprinkles on top of an already delicious sundae. Dominance and submission refer to a consensual erotic power exchange between two (or more) people. Although it may sound scary, due to consent and safety precautions kinkster engage in, a D/S scene can be safer than a vanilla hook-up. "Any time that we are talking about power control, that is the safest kind of sex that partners can have because there's so much communication, trust, and vulnerability built into these kinds of exchanges and sexual experiences," says sex therapist and author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life Dr. Holly Richmond. 16. Autonepiophilia Enemies-to-lovers is a common trope for a reason! The co-workers who can't get along. The stranger who keeps stealing your cab in the morning. The arrogant guy who's dating your sister. Despite your angst over their mere existence, sometimes, hate sex just happens. And when it does? It's usually scorching. 105. Go down on your partner while they’re on an important phone call. Explore without judgment or shame what you both enjoy, and accept the fact that this process involves some trial and error. At the end of the day, open communication — in and out of the bedroom — is often the best aphrodisiac of all. Consent is key, and it’s important to fully understand what her intentions are if you feel as though she may be coming onto you. If you’re unsure of what she wants, just ask!

Power play exists in every relationship even if you aren't engaging in kinky sex, but it can really ramp things up in the bedroom. In BDSM circles power play refers to the practice of dominance and submission and requires advanced levels of communication, trust and intimacy to succeed, so think of it as the ultimate sex game starting in the mind. A good place to start is the good old fashioned servant and master routine, so surrender completely to your lover (or vice versa) and pander to their every whim for an incredibly intimate, powerful and sexy time. 24. Fetish Before jumping into butt play, easing into anal with a finger is an easy way to test the waters. It can be your fing or your partner’s, but gently insert it and give the anus a lil massage to see what all the fuss is about. 50. Try a toy up the butt. Work up a sweat before you get dirty together. In the wise words of Elle Woods, "Exercise gives me you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy!" Bonus if you somehow incorporate exercise equipment into your sex. 28. Try to go a week without sex, but do tease each other constantly the whole time. Quirofilia is one of those kinks that sounds more far-out than it is: It simply refers to an attraction to hands. Whether you go for big, hairy hands, or soft, dainty manicured ones, considering how much we use our hands during sex, it's a highly relatable kink. 22. Pregnancy Can you keep quiet while your partner gives you oral? Pro tip: It's helpful if you're on a call where "ahhhs" and "mmmms" can count as responses. 107. Have sex in your partner’s childhood home.Sex positions for kinky sex depend on the scenario being played out, but Lianne suggests being bent over a counter, chair, bed, or specialised sex apparatus, especially if you're trying bondage or spanking. If you don't have a penis, try donning a dildo or strap-on for a whole other type of play. Not only is wearing a harness hot but being on the giving side can actually be super erotic as well. 54. Have silent sex. A yoni massage is basically a vagina massage that involves a mix of fingering, touching, and deep-breathing exercises to achieve all-over bliss and maybe a few orgasms too. 18. Experiment with BDSM. Be as brave as your vocabulary permits. You can send a simple, suggestive message—“I can't wait to touch you tonight,” for example—or something more bold, such as a step-by-step guide to what you'll do to them the second they walk through the door. 5. Tie them up.